I first visited Budapest in 1985 and while it was not exactly love at first sight I will admit to being intrigued. Having decided to go to Vienna for Christmas that year and after almost overdosing on Sacher torte and coffee with whipped cream (mit schlag) I took off for Budapest and my first look behind the Iron Curtain.
It was a very different world in the 80’s and stood in stark contrast to the elegant, highly refined Vienna. Almost no one spoke English in those days and the second language was Russian so it was pretty easy to be overwhelmed when trying to navigate the city and see the sites. I stayed in the Hilton Hotel on top of Castle Hill (one of the few places that spoke english) and had a view overlooking the Danube with its stunningly ornate Parliament building, elegant bridges and the skyline of Pest dominated by the dome of St Stephens Basilica. Buda and Pest were two different worlds in the bad old Communist era. Buda with Castle Hill (a UNESCO World Heritage site) and its collection of colorful Medieval buildings, cobbled streets, elegant Baroque churches, gas lights and quaint squares was a far cry from the grim and gritty Pest. At the time Pest still showed some of the ravages of war and revolution…bullet riddled and damaged buildings in various states of decay. The facades blackened from a couple of centuries of using coal as a principal energy source and buttressed up with scaffold made from old railroad ties and scrap lumber added to a grim impression of a sad city
Having just been to Vienna, the other half of the Austro-Hungarian Empire, I could see the potential. If only hundreds of years of accumulated coal soot could be washed from the buildings, bullet holes filled and patched, peeling paint scraped away and fresh paint applied. No one ever accused the Communist of being concerned with maintenance I can tell you. Even in the sorry state that the once majestic city had sunk to I could still see its former grandeur shinning through here and there. I left the city after four days hoping to come back in better times.
In 1990 I took a break to travel to Prague after the fall of Communism to see the changes that this new political freedom had brought and after a few days headed back to Budapest to see what changes were taking place there as well. Not much in the way of urban revitalization had occurred yet but there was a different mood in the city and people had a lightness that was heretofore unseen by me. I knew then that I would see great changes in this most beautiful of European Capitals….I only had to keep checking in.
Jump ahead 27 years and I decided in the fall of 2016 to make a trip to Eastern Europe and in the process revisit Budapest, Everything I was reading was singing the praises of the city. Calling it the “New Berlin” a city that was hip and happening…and the best part of all was the low cost of living…cheap rent, food, wine and ticket prices for world class events and performances unbelievably low. How could I resist? I returned to a new city filled with beautiful tree Lined boulevards, delightful squares surrounded with outdoor cafes, clean and newly painted buildings…my mild flirtation with Budapest had now blossomed into a full-fledged love affair. I vowed to come back in the spring and stay for awhile.
After having been on the road for over seven years I had been thinking…I need a home base. A little voice inside my head was saying…you need to slow down and not hit 10 -12 countries a year and I wanted a place to call home…I wanted a place to cook meals and entertain friends…I began to think perhaps Budapest was the answer. After spending the winter in Chiang Mia, Thailand it was time to head back to Budapest and see if the love story would continue or be a flash in the pan sort of “wham bam thank you ma’am” affair. Only time would tell.
So there I was in my new city of Budapest and it is every bit as enchanting as I had imagined. It also possesses everything I think a good city should have…good public transportation, good architecture, culture, outdoor spaces with cafe’s, green spaces and museums…always lots of museums. It is not just me that thinks that this is a great city…The Eu’s “Quality of Life” index rates Budapest as the most livable Central European city. I moved into District 1 on the Buda side of the river in what is called a “classic building” dating to before WW1 with large rooms and high ceilings….a great spot to lay up for the winter.
I made a promise to myself to stay at least one year in Budapest no matter how much I wanted to head to Thailand for the winter. The transition was made easier because a great many people I know wanted to come to the city and visit it me…well perhaps it was just the city they wanted to visit, but I had the benefit of lots of good company.. Between April and Christmas I had 25 friends who made the journey and I did my best to be a good tour guide for them.
My friends visits were very fortuitous because Budapest was the most difficult place for me to make friends that I have ever experienced. I don’t know the reason precisely but it could be a combination of things…my age, national personality traits, patterns of reticence left over from the Communist era…who the hell knows. As winter rolled in and the days became gray and overcast I was less and less certain of my choice to make Budapest my home base.
To be continued….
My apologies for having been off the blog for so long. Perhaps I took the idea of a break year to seriously but I’m back and I look forward to seeing you my travel friends on Where’s Bosco Now.
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Excellent! Are you settled in Chaing Mai? In your old digs? I’ll PM you.
Leave for Thailand on the 2nd of June. Hope your trip to Italy was a good one. Talk soon.
so glad you are back to writing
Linda, Thanks for writing how are you doing…still in the Philippines?? How is Larry’s health doing? All the best to you.
So good to hear from you! Much has happened since our last communique. For the abridged version….Charlie’s mom is now in a foster home living situation with 4 other ladies and my parents are now in assisted living. My father turns 95 next month and my mom is 91. We totally renovated our backyard and added a two level covered patio attached to the house with a new roof. One level is dining and the next step down is a fire pit with lounges. Next week is a potluck with my gym class and then June 9 we are on the American association of university women’s garden tour. I have been working in the garden non-stop for over a month. As soon as the cool weather started warming I was out planting. Our home is one of 6 on the tour. The association provides scholarships for girls in our valley. We also sold the two bedroom condo in Hawaii last May. We kept the one bedroom so we would still be able to have a getaway. The volcano is active now but we are still far enough away that we are not too concerned. We still rent it when we are not there. In June we take my second grandson to Kona for his high school graduation. Then in August we head to Ireland for two weeks and then a week in the York area of England to catch up with friends on their canal boat. In between trips we will have company and Charlie’s sister Laura, who retired last year will come up the month of June. We have a chance to go to Tahiti next January or February when it is cold here but have not ironed out the details yet. Sadly we won’t be able to extend our travels to Budapest or Prague but perhaps next year. It is difficult to be absent from our parents more than a couple of weeks at a time. We love our home, though, and have a staycation here now. Hope to see you again in the future. Best wishes in your new digs and base camp. Gene and Charlie
Wonderful, entertaining post….can’t wait for part 2. Your memory is amazing.
Wondered where you were.Budapest is a good choice. Where do you stay there? I spent 2 months with Chen in South America. A good part in Patagonia. It was a good time. Now I’m in Louisville until a week from Monday when I go to China. You know I wrote to Joyce and she didn’t anser and I wrote when I got here and no answer. I wonder what’s going on. What do you do in Budapest?Where do you hang out. I suppose you have friends there. It must be nice in the Spirng
Levi, I rented an apartment in Dist 1 which was very comfortable. I am in Torre Del Mar, Spain this month and go onto Bangkok June 2nd. Have not talked to Joyce in a while so I don’t know her story. Have a good trip to China. I will be in CM after the 5th.
Had the opportunity to visit Larry and beautiful Budapest a year ago. The architecture from the Hapsburg empire was inspiring. A visit to Budapest should be on everyone list of places to visit. Thanks for the great blog Larry!